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  • Do you drink and swing?

    Do you drink and swing?

    We know you are nervous. It’s a first date or third date. You’ve hit it off with another couple and everyone is meshing well. Everyone knows today will lead to playtime.

    You are ready with your toys, condoms, lube! Everyone agrees to meet up at a bar or go to dinner. Then the drinks begin to flow.

    The first bottle of wine goes quickly as to be expected between four people. Everyone has a nice buzz so a second bottle is ordered. This is when things can get carried away and take away from the night of fun you envisioned, and turn it into a bit of a mess.

    We met a couple about a month ago. We’ll call them Betty and Mark.

    After a week of good conversation on Kik, exchanging pictures and naughty flirting, our schedules matched up and we finally got together and had a great time! We didn’t full swap on the first date, as is our rule, but we certainly had a steamy hot ending for our first meetup, which I plan to cover in detail soon.

    We saw them a second time a week later when we went to a local meet n greet. We again had a great end to the evening, but due to a different encounter that randomly spawned that night, we didn’t get the chance to spend much time with them. Having previously planned to get a hotel with Betty and Mark the following weekend we knew we’d get our opportunity soon.

    The week leading up to our hotel night we flirted constantly on Kik and talk about all the wild things we wanted to do to each other. Everyone clicked and we were all on the same page. We met at a restaurant within walking distance of the hotel which was perfectly set up for drinking to take place. No one had to drive and we were all excited to get the party started!

    We got to the hotel a bit later than planned. We had been trying to find nice shoes last minute. We took showers and got ready for the evening. Lily and I arrived at the restaurant first and they messaged that they were on the way.

    We had a nice awkward moment when Lily let the hostess know we were there for our reservation. She couldn’t locate it. Then we realized the reservation was under Betty.

    The hostess handed us a buzzer to let us know when the table would be ready.

    We decided to grab a drink at the bar while we waited. It was packed and there was only one stool open. We did the sideways stance while we ordered two glasses of Pinot Grigio.

    We stood drinking our wine as we waited for the Betty and Mark to get there and our table to be ready.

    When they arrived we noticed there was more confusion at the hostess counter. I guess the hostess was confused since she had already given the buzzer for our table to us. We waived them over and that cleared things up. They joined us at the bar and got a drink for themselves.

    The restaurant was classy and the bar had a giant Pineapple drink which we all found to be somewhat humorous for obvious reasons. They must have been expecting us.

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    A few moments later our table was ready.

    Betty holding the buzzer in one hand and her glass of Mascato in the other scurried off to follow the hostess. Once the rest of us realized the table was ready we followed.

    We were seated at a square table and I made sure I sat with Lily on one side and Betty on the other with Mark across from me. This way everyone could be near each other’s spouse.

    We immediately ordered a bottle of the Pinot Grigio Lily and I had been drinking. We ordered appetizers, dinner, and we drank!!

    We had awesome conversation. First about basics like kids and sitters. We were glad to have met a couple who has kids because they understand the struggle of scheduling things.

    The conversation turned sexy very quick. We were all so excited all week and the night was finally upon us.

    Once we finished the wine we decided to get a second bottle. That was likely not a great idea. We were already buzzed but no one had to drive so we figured, why not?

    Sticking with Pinot but this time a Pinot Noir. I could not pronounce the name of it so I just make one up. The waitress even found it funny. She was kind of cute now that I think about it!

    As we drank, talked, and ate our meals we noticed the restaurant began to really empty out. Perhaps they had heard our discussion. We were talking a bit loud but we were having a blast.

    Finally we decided to head out. We made our way, quite tipsy to a bar across the street.

    Lily and I immediately ordered margaritas. Why? I have no idea!! I was not tipsy. I was pretty drunk at this point. Everyone was but like I said we were having fun. The conversation continued and I wondered if people around could hear the swinger things we were discussing but didn’t care much. I downed the margarita and ordered a beer. This was pointless. I didn’t need more alcohol. I don’t think I even finished it.

    We were all finally ready to go the hotel. We were all highly intoxicated at this point and I was starting to have concerns on how things would operate.

    Lily and Mark sat on the couch and Betty and I decided to get ice in the ice bucket so we could all have ice water. Her and I left the room and walked to the ice machine.

    When we returned Lily and Mark had began making out. Betty and I took our places on the couch and began to do the same. Next thing I knew Lily was already on her knees blowing him. Which was great because Betty mirrored her and began to suck me off also.

    This went on then Betty got up and went to the bed. She laid down and said lets all go to the bed!

    We had changed out the light bulbs with red lights inspired by one of our favorite podcasts, That Couple Nextdoor.

    At first things were moving along well. I began to have sex with Betty and Lily was riding Mark. I would reach over and grab her breast, or Lily and Betty would share a kiss. It was one of the hottest experiences I had ever been a part of. Until hotness became me actually being hot.

    Being hot and drunk makes sex very difficult and when sex becomes difficult things dont work quite the way they should.

    We swapped back to our own spouses and unfortunately I was spent. This is not the norm for me so I was a bit frustrated. Lily was so drunk she started to get annoyed with me a little. She said that I seemed to be fine with Betty. She was taking it personally but I felt like shit as it was so that didn’t really help. We left the bed and went back to the couch but it was really no use. I needed some time. The moment was gone.

    We heard them finish on the bed and they quickly got dressed and next thing we knew they heading out the door thanking us for a good time.

    Lily was a bit upset that I couldn’t finish. She was frustrated that neither man finished with her. She often feels inadequate if she doesn’t make a man cum.

    We cooled off and I was able to rally with Lily though, and we had amazing sex. Both of us came hard. The neighboring suites had to get quite the sound show that night.

    We fell asleep shortly after but I was awakened to the sounds of Lily throwing up in the bathroom. The alcohol had gotten the best of her too. This was our lesson in drinking and swinging!

    Our advice to other couples is the same we should have listened to from so many. Don’t overdo it with the alcohol. While it certainly helps lower your inhibitions, too much can take away from the pleasure everyone is trying to achieve. Also, the hangover the next day in your 30’s is brutal! Lily was in bed the entire next day. We will definitely limit our alcohol in the future.

    If you enjoy our adventures please share! We love to share and that is what it is all about!

    Go checkout one of our favorite podcasts who gave us the idea for the red light. Have a listen to Jay and Kay at That Couple Nextdoor. https://www.thatcouplenextdoor.com/what-we-do/

    If you have any questions or comments please let us know! Feel free to share your experiences as well. We love to hear everyone’s story!

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  • Single guys. Come on!!

    Single guys. Come on!!

    Here is a little sidetrack from the history of how we became swingers. Don’t worry though we will get back to that soon.

    Most of our encounters have been MFM (Male Female Male) experiences until recently.  In the past having a friend join was easy. We were in our twenties going bars or having friends over to drink or smoke weed. Getting one of them to stick around and have sex with a married woman was not all that difficult of a task.  Most guys are not going to turn down sex with no strings.

    Now in are later thirties we are finding it to be much more of a challenge.  Having kids we don’t go out and party like we did in the past.  Plus, the friends we do party with are other parents in the neighborhood and we are not trying to have that awkward Girl Scout meeting happen!

    On the prowl we scroll some of the sites like SLS (SwingLifestyle.com) for example, being the one we have been on the longest and to our surprise the profiles for single males are simply awful!

    You are a single guy, with the opportunity of NSA sex with a hotwife, Milf and you can’t even fill in your profile?  You should try a little to entice at least!

    We did meet an amazing guy when we lived out west.  Lily prefers a man with some dominance.  I am pretty Dominant as well.  She just likes her men like that.  The guy who joined us back then was the first person we met off SLS.  He was Greek if I recall.  Tall, tan, nice physique and knew what he wanted.  He was very Dominant but in a respectful way.  There is a very fine line between dominant and asshole.  If you can master that line you will go far in this community.

    We are currently on the hunt to add a guy and we have noticed a few things.

    Men are not nearly as dominant as they say they are.  Or maybe it is just where we are living now.  It’s totally awesome that you are polite but sometimes in this situation polite is just…well…boring! If she is bored I am bored. This applies to men we meet in a couple also. Which makes us wonder if some of these couples are in the lifestyle because the wife is being left unsatisfied.  Don’t get me wrong.  I am not a cuck, though sometimes enjoy taking a backseat and letting Lily fully engage in her other man.  The hotness for me is seeing her turned on.  Other times I can be very Alpha so when she is shared with another man she is being devoured.  She loves that as it makes her feel desired.  Who doesn’t enjoy being desired?

    Everyone is different so if soft and sensual is your thing that is great but we prefer to leave “Making Love” for us.  When others are involved it’s time to fuck!

    Another thing we notice with single men is their lack of communication.  Say something! We’re not going to just book a date and fuck.  Don’t just send a dick pic right out the gate. Women need to be mentally stimulated.  If you fuck her mind then you’ll probably fuck her but if you can’t hold a conversation in text chat then we are not off to a good start.

    In our current search we’ve began conversations that seem to be heading in the right direction then suddenly there are hours or days between answers. This makes it nearly impossible to build a connection. It’s like a constant false start. Makes us wonder if these men were serious in the first place.

    We get it though. Maybe there is a place for these men. Maybe it’s just us. We know not everyone is looking for the same thing we are. Either way if you are a single male trying to take part in the LS, here is a bit of advice.  Know what you want but be willing to improvise. Listen to the couple you are trying to meet with. If you really want to be part of their sexy secret world listen to what they are looking for. Adapt and be ready when the time is right. This isn’t “normal” dating but you still have to make an effort.

    Comment if you’d like to tell us about your experience as a single male or a couple looking to add a third.

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  • Retribution

    Retribution

    After I was caught cheating it seemed our relationship would come to a halt. Lily had lost all trust in me. She’d call me a cheater and a liar.

    She would say, “Once a cheater always a cheater!”

    But somehow I  convinced her to give me a second chance. I had to prove myself. She felt even though what I did was awful and inexcusable, why should someone else get to be with me? Deep down she still wanted the relationship to work. We were only teenagers and trying to make a life long relationship out of highschool sweethearts was a far-fetched fantasy but we didn’t care. After all we were in love. As much as she despised what I did she loved me anyways and I loved her just as much. True unconditional love! I would do anything to keep the relationship going and soon I would have the opportunity to prove it.

    Back in the late 90’s ecstasy was huge! One of my brothers and his girlfriend (now wife) introduced it to us. We were already smoking pot daily and had the occasional LSD adventure. We figured, why not!?

    Ecstasy magnifies the senses. Every touch feels amazing. Love becomes more intense than ever imagined. The crash is awful but the high is glorious and the sex on it is phenomenal. Just once and we were hooked. We planned to do it again very soon.

    We would get our pills from a friend of my brothers, Jake. He’d DJ at local clubs and had a gorgeous blond girlfriend (now his wife) Amelia who simply spewed sexuality. She always reminded me of a young Pamela Anderson. Complete with the large breast, long flowing blond hair, perfect legs and eyes that said, “Fuck me” all day long. Jake and my brother were best friends so he was over at our house all the time.

    Our parents would be going out-of-town to visit our oldest brother at college so we were all planned a party. Jake would bring his DJ equipment and set it up in the basement and we would roll the night away.

    I had been talking to Jake about my issues with Lily and how I had been caught cheating. I believe he was the one who had brought up the idea to let her sleep with someone else so then we’d be even and could move on. Thinking back on it that was a possibly a pretty sly move to get to sleep with my girlfriend. He mentioned how he and Amelia had swapped with another couple in the past and how hot it was.

    Orgies, gang bangs, and swapping has always been my favorite categories of porn. Since porn was not as readily available on the internet back then as it is today watching it was a bit more difficult. Reading it however I’d discover was just as hot. I would find stories on sites like Literotica.com and print them off to read while masturbating. I was always turned on by stories of promiscuous women imagining I was the man having to watch his wife or girlfriend turned into a cock drunk slut right in front of him. Little did I know I was about to experience it first hand.

    The more of these stories I read the more I thought I could totally handle her fucking another man. In fact I wanted her to and I wanted to see it happen! I told Lily about my conversation with Jake and what he and Amelia had done in the past. Jake was older than us by a few years and very much an Alpha male. Lily did not hesitate in accepting the offer. She would fuck him to get retribution and that would restore our relationship.

    The next time I spoke to Jake we were in the garage at my house. That was our hangout spot. We could smoke cigarettes out there or weed. There was a TV in the corner and a stereo. I brought up the conversation Jake and I had previously. I was nervous as I asked him if he would fuck Lily. I explained that we had discussed it and we wanted this to happen but she wanted it to be with him. Of course he agreed. In those days Lily was a petite little thing with a body of a dancer. She had long brown hair and sultry brown eyes. Her legs were smooth, her ass was firm, and her tits were perfectly perky. Who wouldn’t say yes to fucking her? We planned to make it happen at the house party we were having in a couple of weeks.

    Waiting for that weekend to come was a mixture of nervousness and excitement but I was more sexually charged than ever. My girlfriend who had only ever been with me was about fuck another guy. Also she had decided she was going to make me watch as the ultimate punishment.

    We would talk about it when we had sex. She would tell me how she was going to let him use her like a whore in front of me. Saying things like that would only make me thrust harder and cum pretty fast. More and more I felt this experience was going to be life changing and it definitely was.

    On the night of the party everyone was there. Jake came by to drop off the pills and said Amelia would arrive later. Chris who I talked about in the first blog was there with his new girlfriend.  She was a bit more innocent and did not even smoke pot.  We had to pretend we were just drinking because then Chris wouldn’t get in a fight with her.

    We took our pills and settled in for a fun night anticipating what was to come.  Once the pills began kick in the touching and massaging started.  Jake offered to “Blow Lily up” He told me to stand behind her and massage her back as he simultaneously massaged her from the front and blew through a Vicks inhaler all over her face and body.  She removed her shirt so she could feel it more.  His hands began to rub all over as I watched him caress her breast and massage her nipples.  She was getting so turned on by this.  He could have owned her right there and fucked her in front of everyone if he wanted. She was melting between the two of us. Watching her become so aroused from being touched by two men was exhilarating!  Her eyes closed as her body moved in time with our massages.  Her nipples fully erect and urging to be stimulated.  It was amazing.

    After he finished and the ecstasy roll had fully taken hold she sat back against me as I continued to run my fingers lightly up and down her arms.  She whispered she was ready.

    Amelia had arrived around that time and Jake had explained everything to her.  She was looking hot as always and was to my surprise totally down with the plan to let Lily get fucked by Jake.  We discussed turning it into a foursome but Lily said that I didn’t get to have sex because it was her turn to get back at me for cheating.

    We all snuck off to my bedroom and met there trying not to draw attention to ourselves from the other’s at the party.  When I walked in Jake already has his hands all over Lily. He was rubbing her body and massaging her breast.  I knew by the look on her face her pussy was extremely wet and she was ready to fuck.  She had always been interested in girls and Amelia was absolutely Bi.  Jake told them to kiss.  Amelia took over the massaging.  They rubbed and moved their bodies together as they kissed.  Lily was nervous as she explored another girl for the first time.

    The room was a large rectangle with a couch that ran along one side under a double set of windows and a twin bed in the far corner.  Amelia laid Lily on the bed and began to kiss and lick her way down her body running her hands all over her breast and nipples.  I laid at the head of the bed with a front row seat.  It was one of the hottest things I’d ever seen.  Amelia began to lick and suck at Lily’s pussy. She let out a long exhale.  Amelia had clearly done this before.  She continued to rub her hands up her thighs and flicked her tongue across her clit. Lily’s breathing picked up tempo as she felt the sensual touch of another girl for the first time.  Amelia sat back giving Jake a view of her perfect plump ass and soft white skin as she was kneeling at the foot of my bed.  In awe I sat gently stroking my cock.  Amelia rubbed Lily’s pussy in quick circular motions.  This turned her breathing into soft moans of pleasure.

    Finally, Amelia stood up and laid on the bed asking Lily to return the favor.  Amelia spread her legs showing her tight little pussy which was just as wet as Lily’s.  Lily was extremely nervous about this.  She had never gone down on a girl before and was a bit hesitant.  After all this was unexpected and not what she was originally here for.  She began to lick Amelia.  Amelia grabbed the back of Lily’s head pushing her face in.  Force feeding her clit to her.  Shortly into it however, Lily broke free awkwardly uncomfortable with what she had done.

    Lily went to Jake and began to kiss him.  Meanwhile Amelia laid down on the bed next to me and took my hand rubbing herself with it.  She slid my hand down her body to show me how wet she was.  Lily reminded that I could not fuck anyone.  I was only allowed to watch!

    She was stroking Jake’s cock and kissing him deeply.  I was in a bit of a trance watching.  I couldn’t tell if it was the ecstasy allowing me to be ok with it all or just that it was so hot to see her this way.  Soon she dropped to her knees and was face to face with Jake’s cock.  He penis was thick and decent size. She opened her mouth and wrapped her lips around the tip doing circles with her tongue.  Lily had always gave amazing at blow jobs and being this was her first time with another man I think she was trying to impress him. I watched my girlfriend’s head slowly bob up and down as she sucked him off.  Amelia was rubbing my balls and began to suck my cock but unfortunately one of the side effects of ecstasy is that sometimes the equipment doesn’t work all that well. One of the hottest girls I’d ever seen naked was trying to give me a blow job and sadly I could not get hard.  She totally understood since they rolled often and told me not to worry about it.

    Amelia continued stroking me as Jake now was gripping Lily’s hair and fucking her sweet innocent little face.

    When she was let up for air she looked up at him and said, “Fuck me”.

    That was all Jake needed to hear.  The time had come.  Lily was about to take another man for the first time.  He laid her on the floor in missionary.  Lily spread her legs without hesitation and intense lust in her eyes as he lowered himself on top of her.  She was so wet at this point his penis split her pussy lips with ease.

    I could not take my eyes off her.  Amelia, the extremely sexy Pamela Anderson look-a-like was rubbing my cock but all my focus was on Lily.

    She quickly became lost in the new cock that had entered her.  She didn’t seem to care what else was happening.  As his pace quickened her lust turned in to pure animalistic behaviour.  He lifted her legs up placing one on each shoulder and began to pound her.  She grunted every time his balls slap against her ass as his cock went deeper and deeper.  She looked at me as she held onto his arms getting fucked harder than she ever has.  Her eyes were glazed over from a mixture of drugs and sex.  She was becoming a true slut right before my eyes and we were both turned on by it.

    As she stared at me she grunted, “Are you watching him fuck me?  This is what you get for cheating on me! This is how I want to be fucked!”

    The slapping of skin went on and on until finally he pull out and came a huge load all over her stomach.

    It was over and I was intensely aroused but still couldn’t even get hard.  She cleaned up and came to me on the bed and we held each other lying naked as we continued to rub our bodies together.

    This amazing experience was the beginning for us and we wanted more! The whole time it was happening Chris had tried a few times to come in the room but we had said no because we didn’t want everyone knowing what was happening.  We all cleaned up and left the room.  There was a strong smell of sex in the air and anyone who went in that room had to know someone had been fucked.  We were so naive to think everyone in the house didn’t hear the skin smacking and Lily’s grunts and moans.  Chris wanted in on it too and Lily wanted more cock.

    By this time it was early in the morning but she was still in a lust haze when she told me to have Chris meet us in the bedroom.  He accepted and my best friend and I used my new-found whore for hours like a sex doll.  He would become the third in many adventures going forward.

     

    Please comment or message us if you have any questions or even suggestions about topics you may want to hear about.  We may jump ahead a bit and come back to our experiences with Chris another time.  We hope you enjoy our blog.  All stories are true. The only changes made have been the names of the people in them.  We would love and appreciate any feedback.  Also please share and help us reach a larger audience.  Thank you so much for reading! 

     

     

  • Back in the Day

    Back in the Day

    Welcome to our blog about the Swinging Lifestyle.

    Through this blog we share our stories of excitement, adventures, exploration, and any mishaps we encounter along the way.  We intend to unveil the mystery behind the Lifestyle and provide answers to questions people may have at least from our perspective.  Whether new and curious, or a longtime lifestyle veteran hopefully you will come away with a sense of acceptance with the realization that there are many of us out there and it is nothing to be ashamed of.

    We are Lily and Mike; a married couple in our late thirties who have been together over twenty years.  Our relationship is rock solid and our love for each other is strong and unconditional.

    We met as teenagers in the summer of 96′.  At that time in our lives our hormones were insane! Once we started having sex we couldn’t get enough.  We would have sex anywhere, everywhere, and all the time! One time we had sex in the middle of a corn field while we were hanging out with friends.  We simply disappeared, took off our pants and went at it like we were in heat! And we were!

    Early in our relationship I made a mistake that could have put a stop to everything before it began.  I’ve known from a very young age that I was going to be hypersexual.  I could NOT wait to grow up and have sex.  Unfortunately when I met Lily, being a teenager, I was at the pinnacle of my sexual exploration! My hormones were off the charts! She had a friend who was a sexy voluptuous redhead. We all hung out together and she was dating a friend of mine.  Let’s call her Jess.

    We were at Jess’s house one weekend and a game of truth or dare broke out as could be expected of teenagers. Quite vanilla to begin with but quickly turned naughty.  It was myself, Lily, Jess and her boyfriend, Chris. Chris and I had been friends a long time.  Attempting to orchestrate the fun one of us “boys” dared Lily and Jess to kiss.  They were shy and giggly. It was so cute.  I can’t recall at this point but I think it was pretty quick but Chris and I, being the horny boys we were,  just stared and gawked in amazement. Then someone brought up the idea of swapping partners to make out.  We went in separate rooms though since none of us wanted to see the other since we were worried about any jealousy issues.  She took me into a bedroom and I sat on the edge of the bed.  Jess became giggly again and we both laughed nervously as we looked at each other.  At that time in my life my nerves always got the better of me and I had trouble initiating anything.  We agreed to just do it! She came up to me and leaned in.  Once her lips touched mine all the nerves disappeared.  We started making out exploring each other’s tongues and feeling that sexual tension begin to grow.  We broke away finally but were left hot and bothered.  Shortly after our little game it was time to leave.

    Going forward Chris and Jess decided to take a break from each other.  They remained friends however.  We got together often for hangouts and parties since all of our friends were intertwined.

    We were planning to get together one night but Lily had to work in the afternoon so we had some time we had to kill until she got out.  Jess and I decided to go to a movie.  We never really discussed the kiss we had during the truth or dare game but there was definitely sexual tension between the two of us ever since.  Her and I sat in the theater together.  I have absolutely no idea what movie we watched. As we sat there suddenly we began to touch each other lightly.  I started rubbing her thighs and she would rub mine.  We started to kiss and grab at each other.  My cock was so hard.  She pulled it out and began to stroke it.  We were way in the back of the theater so no one knew plus it was fairly empty being an earlier show.  It was so hot and I knew I just had to fuck her.  When we left the theater we instantly felt remorse.  Lily was my girlfriend and Jess’s best friend.  We swore we would tell no one and never do this again.

    As days passed however and we would talk about what happened to each other we knew not doing it again was going to be difficult. I dropped by her house saying we were just going to hang out and watch some tv.  Instantly we began to touch and grope each other.  My tongue down her throat and she grabbed my cock through my pants.  I can’t recall if she gave me a blowjob but I think so.  Remember this was like 20 years ago.  She had very large breast for a 18-year-old girl.  They were amazing and me being very much a boob guy had to suck on them.  I buried my face between them tasting and licking.   I Laid her back on the couch, pulled her pants off, and spread her legs revealing her soft virgin pussy.  She had faint reddish hair just above.  Yes, she was a true redhead! I went down on her.  I had no idea what I was doing but always loved to taste new pussy.  I licked and sucked.  She became so wet and horny.  I came up spread her legs wide and slid my cock right into her pussy.  It was so tight.  I began to thrust in and out slowly.  I didn’t have much staying power back then and new pussy always made me cum very quickly.  I was trying to keep from having this happen.  With her legs wrapped around me her body moved with me.  There was no way I was going to hold out.  I pulled out and came on her stomach.

    We got cleaned up but could not keep our hands off each other.  I needed to be inside her tight pussy again.  We drove to  a secluded parking lot behind a business complex.  This was the go to spot to “park and fuck” back in the mid 90s for us teens.   I had a moon roof in my car which I removed.  Once we parked we went at it again. She straddled me and bounced up and down with her breast right at face level.  It was so hot.  She had plenty of head room with the moonroof removed.  I asked if I could call her a little slut but she denied saying she didn’t like that.  Lily loved being called a slut and other naughty names when I fucked her. Still does! After we finished we swore that would be the last time.  It definitely was the last time!

    A few days later Jess called me.  She was guilt stricken.  She had betrayed her best friend.  She told me she had to confess to her.  I also think she was hoping to break us up so she could be with me.  Which to me was not even a thought I even had though I may have hinted at it.  I’m not proud to say it but back then I’d say all kinds of things to get pussy.  I pleaded with her to keep our secret but it was useless.  They went to the same school and saw each other every day.  She approached her in the hallway and came clean.

    The fallout nearly destroyed our marriage before the idea ever entered our minds.  Lily was heartbroken.  She was angry and rightly so.  I had broken our trust.   One of the most difficult things to repair is trust.  She may have forgiven but has never forgotten.  No matter how many years go by.  Jealousy issues still come up even today that are rooted in the awful judgment I had as a teenager. However this incident would prove to be the catalyst to our journey into the Lifestyle.

    Please let us know if you have questions or comments!  Next time we will describe our first experience with a couple which stems from an agreement we made to give retributions to hopefully repair our trust.