Welcome to our blog about the Swinging Lifestyle.
Through this blog we share our stories of excitement, adventures, exploration, and any mishaps we encounter along the way. We intend to unveil the mystery behind the Lifestyle and provide answers to questions people may have at least from our perspective. Whether new and curious, or a longtime lifestyle veteran hopefully you will come away with a sense of acceptance with the realization that there are many of us out there and it is nothing to be ashamed of.
We are Lily and Mike; a married couple in our late thirties who have been together over twenty years. Our relationship is rock solid and our love for each other is strong and unconditional.
We met as teenagers in the summer of 96′. At that time in our lives our hormones were insane! Once we started having sex we couldn’t get enough. We would have sex anywhere, everywhere, and all the time! One time we had sex in the middle of a corn field while we were hanging out with friends. We simply disappeared, took off our pants and went at it like we were in heat! And we were!
Early in our relationship I made a mistake that could have put a stop to everything before it began. I’ve known from a very young age that I was going to be hypersexual. I could NOT wait to grow up and have sex. Unfortunately when I met Lily, being a teenager, I was at the pinnacle of my sexual exploration! My hormones were off the charts! She had a friend who was a sexy voluptuous redhead. We all hung out together and she was dating a friend of mine. Let’s call her Jess.
We were at Jess’s house one weekend and a game of truth or dare broke out as could be expected of teenagers. Quite vanilla to begin with but quickly turned naughty. It was myself, Lily, Jess and her boyfriend, Chris. Chris and I had been friends a long time. Attempting to orchestrate the fun one of us “boys” dared Lily and Jess to kiss. They were shy and giggly. It was so cute. I can’t recall at this point but I think it was pretty quick but Chris and I, being the horny boys we were, just stared and gawked in amazement. Then someone brought up the idea of swapping partners to make out. We went in separate rooms though since none of us wanted to see the other since we were worried about any jealousy issues. She took me into a bedroom and I sat on the edge of the bed. Jess became giggly again and we both laughed nervously as we looked at each other. At that time in my life my nerves always got the better of me and I had trouble initiating anything. We agreed to just do it! She came up to me and leaned in. Once her lips touched mine all the nerves disappeared. We started making out exploring each other’s tongues and feeling that sexual tension begin to grow. We broke away finally but were left hot and bothered. Shortly after our little game it was time to leave.
Going forward Chris and Jess decided to take a break from each other. They remained friends however. We got together often for hangouts and parties since all of our friends were intertwined.
We were planning to get together one night but Lily had to work in the afternoon so we had some time we had to kill until she got out. Jess and I decided to go to a movie. We never really discussed the kiss we had during the truth or dare game but there was definitely sexual tension between the two of us ever since. Her and I sat in the theater together. I have absolutely no idea what movie we watched. As we sat there suddenly we began to touch each other lightly. I started rubbing her thighs and she would rub mine. We started to kiss and grab at each other. My cock was so hard. She pulled it out and began to stroke it. We were way in the back of the theater so no one knew plus it was fairly empty being an earlier show. It was so hot and I knew I just had to fuck her. When we left the theater we instantly felt remorse. Lily was my girlfriend and Jess’s best friend. We swore we would tell no one and never do this again.
As days passed however and we would talk about what happened to each other we knew not doing it again was going to be difficult. I dropped by her house saying we were just going to hang out and watch some tv. Instantly we began to touch and grope each other. My tongue down her throat and she grabbed my cock through my pants. I can’t recall if she gave me a blowjob but I think so. Remember this was like 20 years ago. She had very large breast for a 18-year-old girl. They were amazing and me being very much a boob guy had to suck on them. I buried my face between them tasting and licking. I Laid her back on the couch, pulled her pants off, and spread her legs revealing her soft virgin pussy. She had faint reddish hair just above. Yes, she was a true redhead! I went down on her. I had no idea what I was doing but always loved to taste new pussy. I licked and sucked. She became so wet and horny. I came up spread her legs wide and slid my cock right into her pussy. It was so tight. I began to thrust in and out slowly. I didn’t have much staying power back then and new pussy always made me cum very quickly. I was trying to keep from having this happen. With her legs wrapped around me her body moved with me. There was no way I was going to hold out. I pulled out and came on her stomach.
We got cleaned up but could not keep our hands off each other. I needed to be inside her tight pussy again. We drove to a secluded parking lot behind a business complex. This was the go to spot to “park and fuck” back in the mid 90s for us teens. I had a moon roof in my car which I removed. Once we parked we went at it again. She straddled me and bounced up and down with her breast right at face level. It was so hot. She had plenty of head room with the moonroof removed. I asked if I could call her a little slut but she denied saying she didn’t like that. Lily loved being called a slut and other naughty names when I fucked her. Still does! After we finished we swore that would be the last time. It definitely was the last time!
A few days later Jess called me. She was guilt stricken. She had betrayed her best friend. She told me she had to confess to her. I also think she was hoping to break us up so she could be with me. Which to me was not even a thought I even had though I may have hinted at it. I’m not proud to say it but back then I’d say all kinds of things to get pussy. I pleaded with her to keep our secret but it was useless. They went to the same school and saw each other every day. She approached her in the hallway and came clean.
The fallout nearly destroyed our marriage before the idea ever entered our minds. Lily was heartbroken. She was angry and rightly so. I had broken our trust. One of the most difficult things to repair is trust. She may have forgiven but has never forgotten. No matter how many years go by. Jealousy issues still come up even today that are rooted in the awful judgment I had as a teenager. However this incident would prove to be the catalyst to our journey into the Lifestyle.
Please let us know if you have questions or comments! Next time we will describe our first experience with a couple which stems from an agreement we made to give retributions to hopefully repair our trust.