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Switch Hit

We have learned so much about ourselves by exploring our sexuality together. Not so long ago our feelings about sex, sexual desires and what turned us on looked completely different from what they are today.

A few years ago, I posted a question in a local Facebook group we are a part of. A question I thought was straight forward, but have learned the answers were anything but conclusive.

The question was simply, “Are you more dominant or more submissive?”

From my naïve perspective at the time, it seemed like a very black and white, night and day question. You had to be one or the other, no?

I couldn’t have been any further from reality.

Many commented that they are switch, depending on the situation.

Switch? It never occurred to me that someone could be both. Exploring multiple dynamics seemed so alluring. So simple but profound.

Still I wanted clear answers. Ultimately I was actually trying to find out which women in the group were submissive, to be honest. Another naivety. Assuming that just being submissive, perhaps would make them easily be submissive to me. Again, completely wrong!

I rephrased the question in a way to guide them to a precise answer. Urged them to pick a side! Everyone had to have a side, right?

Wrong again! I get it now. There are so many variants to sexual play that it makes complete sense that anyone, regardless of gender or sexual desires could be any part of the spectrum at any given time.

Desires change and evolve. You can choose to hold back or free yourself to safely explore where things may take you. If it’s something in the end you find you don’t like, you can always stop doing it.

For example, you may not be interested in anal play, but your partner wants you to try it with them. Are you curious? Does part of your mind whisper, “maybe you’ll love it.” If it does, give it a try. The worse thing that could happen is you try something and you dislike it. If that happens, communicate it right away. Talk to your partner. Be honest about what specifically you didn’t like. Perhaps there is an adjustment that could be made. Otherwise, if it’s not for you, that is perfectly fine! No one is required to perform any level of sexual acts.

Consent is so important and I can not stress it enough. If you don’t like something, stop, and communicate your feelings. Read all about my thoughts on consent in my previous blog post, https://swingopen.wordpress.com/2019/10/12/consent-is-everything/

Typically, it seems women will play the submissive role. I personally love submissive women. One of the reasons I married Lily. But you must remember, and what I have learned is, just because someone is submissive, does not mean they will submit to just anyone, at least not completely. They must have trust in their partners. This trust must be built up in order to allow someone who is naturally submissive to completely come out of their shell. That or if they orgasm, then all bets are off! At least that is how Lily operates. In the end though, honesty and trust help everyone to feel safe to try new things without fear of ridicule.

This all starts to get into the BDSM community a bit. I am not even going to pretend to know much about BDSM, but I am learning. Some of my new kinks and fetishes definitely dabble in that kink community. I would love to learn more. I hope to share more with all of you.

There is an event coming up this weekend, “Beat Me in St. Louis.” See what they did there? Unfortunately we will not be able to attend. There is no way we can get that many days without kids. Perhaps in the future.

Advertised as a three day fully immersive event. All the Kink and BDSM you could ask for. They have seminars and educational presentations. It will be completely “Vanilla-Free.” Sounds like one hell of an event and a great way to learn a lot at once about the BDSM community.

Find more information for the event by following the link here, https://beatmeinstl.com/

If you happen to go, send pics or just a short paragraph of your favorite thing about the event or even if there were things you didn’t like, share those too. We would love to hear all about it!

Getting back to submissive people, women don’t always play this part. In fact it is pretty common to have a female Dominatrix, or Domme. Gender really plays no part in who is the dominant one.

I have started to explore my submissive side this year and have discovered some amazing erotic feelings that I never knew existed. It is fascinating to allow your inhabitations go and truly immerse yourself in the moment. Submission is not giving up all control. In fact, the submissive has the most power of all. They carry the power to control how far their dominant counterpart may take them. They are the lead character in their sexual adventure.

Allowing myself to switch has given me some of the most highly erotic experiences ever. I still love to be dominant, but in the right moments I am happy to switch.

As I have said in the past, I am really trying to cut ties with all labels as much as possible. Why should they matter? Labels only serve to organize you into subsets or groups. Without labels, you are free to flow naturally from one experience to the next, without guilt or misunderstandings. No hierarchy needs to be created amongst you and your partners. Be dominant, be submissive, be anything that feels right at any moment.

You should try to let go if you have not done so before, become the submissive. Allow yourself the experience of relinquishing your control. If you do this, feel free to report back! Tell us all the dirty details!

Having a partner who explores your sexual desires and helps to push your boundaries definitely is a bonus; some may not have a partner, we know. There are so many singles in these scenes and you can absolutely get in. Of course, women are rarely turned away. You’d have to have really fucked up good if you are a female blacklisted from anything Lifestyle related. Or if you happen to be the single bluefish, just remember this, be yourself, be respectful. I know Lily has a few bluefish she is thankful to have met and have in our lives. We have one paying her a visit tonight.

A lot has happened with us and there is so much I need to catch everyone up on. Topics to come include, “We’re Poly Now?” We will tell all about our first poly relationships and how we struggled to maintain our life while dealing with jealousy and other issues we did not see coming. We plan to discuss cuckolding, including adventures we have explored. Such hot, intense experiences. Perhaps give some details on the “punishment” Lily received in which a friend and I delayed her orgasm several times before fucking her to multiple orgasms.

What else…? Oh! We have decided to jump on the Only Fans train and give it a shot. Why not? We have the equipment and the means to do it. It’s the consistency we lack. Perhaps with Lily being more the focal point of an Only Fans it will drive her to help me be consistent. We shall see. If we ever get accepted.

Picture from www.Lifeinstylestl.com

Also, BIIIIIG NEWS! We are going to National Swingers Weekend 2021 with the LifeinStyLe STL Group! Can NOT wait! Four nights on a lake property with hundreds, perhaps thousands of swingers and lifestyle party goers. There is entertainment every day with dinners and nightly themed parties! We missed last year but are so happy and excited to be a part of it this year!

As always, please feel free to reach out to us if you have any questions or opinions you’d like to relay, or if you just want to talk to someone like minded. We love talking to people from all over and learning about what works for them in this Lifestyle and what we can perhaps take away for ourselves.

To all our followers, thanks for bearing with us. You are very much appreciated! To those who perhaps stumbled upon this, please follow. We promise, it won’t be boring. At least, we will try not to let it be boring. Until next time!

July 8, 2021
LifeinStyLe Hotel Takeover Part 2

This is the long overdue ending to the LifeinSTyLe Spa Takeover we attended in the summer. If you have not read part one be sure to check out LifeinSTyle Hotel Takeover Part 1 to get caught up! (more…)

December 2, 2018
LifeinSTyle Hotel Takeover Part 1

Holy shit! What a night! So many sexy people and not nearly enough time. We attended our first hotel takeover and it was out-fucking-standing!!

We found out about this party on C4P.com. If you are not a member of C4P we definitely recommend you become one.

We were actually supposed to go to a different hotel takeover that our friends from Do you drink and swing? offered to share their room but after talking to the hosts of LifeinStyle and others on twitter who have attended their parties in the past, we thought this was one we had to be at! It also would push us out of our comfort zone a bit which is a must for any couple exploring the LS.

Unfortunately we made the decision to go a little too late so there were no available rooms left at the hotel and we had to settle for the motel 3 miles away. Next time we will be sure to get in on the rooms early!

We can’t say enough good things about the hosts! We had been talking to Vinny and Sabine on twitter recently and they were so helpful in getting us all set up to be at the party. They promised it would be a great time and they did NOT disappoint.

The festivities took place at a Spa Hotel and everyone was to come dressed for a pool party. Lily spent weeks going back and forth on what she would wear. She bought a sexy black one piece but as always began to question her choice so she bought some bikini bottoms also and a see through black cover up. I thought both were sexy.

We were so excited the week leading up to it. Just seeing some of the hot couples who were going to be there on the attendance list had us charged up! It seemed as if the weekend would never arrive.

We spoke to a few other attendees trying to spark up a possibility or just to get to know people we could talk to once we were there. As mentioned this would be a major step out of our comfort zone. It is always exciting to challenge ourselves to make new connections.

The day finally arrive. Our kids were going to their grandma’s for the night. We told them we got a hotel near our house just for a night out to celebrate our 14 year anniversary. We had the car packed and headed out about an hour later than we wanted to. We didn’t want to get to the party first but we did want to get there somewhat early. Plus we still had to go to our hotel room to get ready before.

We made it to the hotel at around 3:30 pm and got settled in. The room was acceptable but certainly no Hilton. There didn’t seem to be many people there and we began to wonder if we were the only ones at the motel and not the main spa hotel the party was to be at.

We unpacked and threw on some music while we took showers and groomed to try to look our best for the party. I had the easy job only having to wear a swimsuit and a t-shirt while Lily settled on starting out in the black one piece. Wish I had remembered to take pictures!

All cleaned up and trying to look our best we were ready to head over. There was a shuttle offered which was wonderful to help avoid drinking and driving. We decided to just drive ourselves over figuring not to get too drunk anyway. We didn’t want a repeat of what happened in Do you drink and swing?

We arrived at the venue. Located in a small town in Southern Illinois the Spa Hotel was an older building that appeared to be prime for big events like weddings. Again it seemed dead in the little town though and we questioned if we were in the right place but seeing another couple, walking up with their “swinger bag” in tow and looking a little confused alike us, we knew it had to be the spot.

We walked up the old stairs to a double door which took a few yanks to pry open. As we entered the main lobby it was clear we were definitely in the right spot. Standing at the table was a sexy black vixen. At first she was unable to find our name. I thought the guy standing next to her may have been Vinny but he said he was not. Let’s call them Adam and Kate. Adam is tall muscular guy with a beard. Lily has a thing for him I think. Kate is a gorgeous exotic looking woman with sultry eyes, a beautiful smile and a sexy body. After looking it over they realized we were on the “other” list. We weren’t sure what that meant and thought maybe we were in a special group but later found out it just meant we weren’t staying at the hotel.

After getting checked in and getting our wristbands they told us where to go. Just down the hall around the corner opened into a large indoor pool courtyard area. There was a restaurant to one side and rooms overlooking the pool. On the far side of the pool they had a bar stand set up serving just about any cocktail you would need. The staff was so friendly and attentive. We immediately went to get a drink. They had specials on pinacoladas so we grab one of those. It was about 4:30 or 5 at this point. The drinks were very strong and went down pretty easy so we had to pace ourselves.

At first we sipped our drinks glancing around at the couples. Little groups seemed to be forming. Many people already knew each other. Just then we recognized Vinny from his tattoos and he noticed us as well. He was just as friendly and outgoing in person as he had been on twitter. He let us know where we could put our bag and gave us a little run down of the evening but had to get back to host duties.

We walked into the pool area with our drinks and noticed another couple we had been talking to on twitter. These two had highly recommended the Lifeinstyle parties. They listen to many of the same LS podcasts we do. We approached them to say hello and introduce ourselves. They were involved in a game of cards against humanities. They had a couple of friends from Florida with them. It was amazing how far people came for this party. They were friendly and cordial. We had wanted to meet them since we had talked a bit. Not necessarily as a couple to play with though we certainly wouldn’t turn down the invitation. We didn’t want to be intrusive but asked if we could join their group and sit down. In retrospect we wish we hadn’t done that because there was a slight awkward moment where it didn’t seem we were welcome. I think they only had a short amount of time with their out-of-town friends so they didn’t want to waste it. Which totally makes sense. Either way we felt a little out-of-place for a moment.

We exchanged a bit of small talk and were relieved when more couples began to show up. There was a super sexy couple John and Liz. Liz was covered in glitter and rubbing it off on anyone and anything she touched. John was very friendly, outgoing, and as I called him later a bit of an instigator. In a good way though. They definitely knew how to party. Lily mentioned several times to me how she thought Liz was “fucking hot”. She definitely was.

The conversation and drinks were flowing. We began to feel a little more at ease since Liz and John were so outgoing. Also by this point Kate and Adam had shown up and they apparently were close friends of theirs. We felt this was the group we had to get to know. Liz asked if anyone wanted to smoke some weed. I was totally down for that. We all went back to their room, Kate and Adam, Liz and John, and Lily and I.

We smoked a bit and had more good conversation. As I said they already knew each other quite well. Next thing we knew Kate and Liz were walking around topless which we did not mind at all! They both had gorgeous breasts and sexy bodies. I forget how it happened but Kate gave a suck on Liz’s nipples and someone suggested Lily have a taste of the other. She was happy to oblige. Such a hot scene as Liz stood with a sexy lady licking on each nipple. John and Adam pointed out that Lily was the only one who still had her top on. Everyone wanted that to change. There was some teasing and negotiating to get her to show more. Lily loved the attention but always plays hard to get. Finally she gave in and flashed her beautiful breasts.

After a bit more smoking we finally all headed back out to the party and to get more drinks. Lily and I discussed getting some dinner but we didn’t want to miss anything. As we sat by the pool we noticed some of the party goers had taken their tops off and there were breasts on display everywhere. It was amazing!

We were told on the third floor there was a play room and also just down the hall was the a special room for a main event later, the “gang bang room”! We had already asked in the week leading up to the party if we could get entrance to watch. Lily was intrigued to see this live. I think she wants one herself if you ask me but just not ready for that level. We saw people going upstairs quite often and didn’t know if maybe people were already playing so we decided to adventure up ourselves and have a look at the playroom. Just before we headed up we made a stop at the restroom. As I waited in the hall for Lily I met this adorable little wide-eyed girl we have dubbed “The Pixie”. She has a gorgeous tattoo just below her breasts. Firm sexy ass and her energy is contagious. Turns out her and her boyfriend live near us. We met him later.

When we got to the third floor the room was easy to find. There were party lights flashing and dance music playing. We went in the room and there was an older couple sitting on a pull out bed. There was a chair in the corner facing the bed. To the left as you entered the room was a wet bar that ran the length of the wall. Turn the corner to the left was a hall leading to another bedroom and a bathroom with a Jacuzzi tub.

Adam and John had showed up in the room or perhaps they were already there. They are both very forward and would put their arms around Lily. I think they were trying to test her limits. The older woman on the bed was pretty drunk. We made small talk about the party but it quickly turned little frisky. Adam tried to tie Lily’s hands behind her back with a washcloth but it was too short. I stepped in behind to try to help hold her hands back. She didn’t fight it much and I could tell she was really enjoying the attention from us three. She laughed with giddiness. She could have been taken right there by three men and would have loved it. She has had two plenty of times but has not ventured past that though I know she wants to. While holding her back I was going to suggest grabbing the pillow case off one of the pillows as I heard that works well but at that moment the chair behind her moved causing her to fall back and releasing her.

Lily went to the bed and picked the mask up asking what it was for. The lady on the bed told her to put it on and lay down so she could show her. Lily either naive or just wanting to play along did what she was told. The blond woman immediately spread Lily’s legs saying, “Come here you little bitch”!

She then buried her face between them as she went down on Lily. Lily was a little mesmerized as she had her pussy eaten by a complete stranger. The older lady was clearly very drunk but I think Lily enjoyed the free pussy licking. After a few minutes with us all watching the excitement Lily was allowed to get up.

We thought it was time to head back downstairs to finally get something to eat. We headed into the restaurant. The great thing about this party is everyone everywhere was part of the group. The only non-lifestyle people were the staff. Though even they may have been. We kept our meal light with sandwiches and water because we needed to sober up a little. It was still early after all.

The tables were all decorated with these cute pineapples! The atmosphere everywhere was welcoming. We had such a great time. The food was tasty too and just what we needed to get a bit of soberness back.

Make sure to check back for part 2. We will talk about the sexy experience we had with the pixie and her man. Also we will cover the grand finale of the evening, Sabine’s gang bang! Don’t miss out on the details. This party was insane! Getting excited for their upcoming Halloween Party

September 26, 2018
Retribution

After I was caught cheating it seemed our relationship would come to a halt. Lily had lost all trust in me. She’d call me a cheater and a liar.

She would say, “Once a cheater always a cheater!”

But somehow I convinced her to give me a second chance. I had to prove myself. She felt even though what I did was awful and inexcusable, why should someone else get to be with me? Deep down she still wanted the relationship to work. We were only teenagers and trying to make a life long relationship out of highschool sweethearts was a far-fetched fantasy but we didn’t care. After all we were in love. As much as she despised what I did she loved me anyways and I loved her just as much. True unconditional love! I would do anything to keep the relationship going and soon I would have the opportunity to prove it.

Back in the late 90’s ecstasy was huge! One of my brothers and his girlfriend (now wife) introduced it to us. We were already smoking pot daily and had the occasional LSD adventure. We figured, why not!?

Ecstasy magnifies the senses. Every touch feels amazing. Love becomes more intense than ever imagined. The crash is awful but the high is glorious and the sex on it is phenomenal. Just once and we were hooked. We planned to do it again very soon.

We would get our pills from a friend of my brothers, Jake. He’d DJ at local clubs and had a gorgeous blond girlfriend (now his wife) Amelia who simply spewed sexuality. She always reminded me of a young Pamela Anderson. Complete with the large breast, long flowing blond hair, perfect legs and eyes that said, “Fuck me” all day long. Jake and my brother were best friends so he was over at our house all the time.

Our parents would be going out-of-town to visit our oldest brother at college so we were all planned a party. Jake would bring his DJ equipment and set it up in the basement and we would roll the night away.

I had been talking to Jake about my issues with Lily and how I had been caught cheating. I believe he was the one who had brought up the idea to let her sleep with someone else so then we’d be even and could move on. Thinking back on it that was a possibly a pretty sly move to get to sleep with my girlfriend. He mentioned how he and Amelia had swapped with another couple in the past and how hot it was.

Orgies, gang bangs, and swapping has always been my favorite categories of porn. Since porn was not as readily available on the internet back then as it is today watching it was a bit more difficult. Reading it however I’d discover was just as hot. I would find stories on sites like Literotica.com and print them off to read while masturbating. I was always turned on by stories of promiscuous women imagining I was the man having to watch his wife or girlfriend turned into a cock drunk slut right in front of him. Little did I know I was about to experience it first hand.

The more of these stories I read the more I thought I could totally handle her fucking another man. In fact I wanted her to and I wanted to see it happen! I told Lily about my conversation with Jake and what he and Amelia had done in the past. Jake was older than us by a few years and very much an Alpha male. Lily did not hesitate in accepting the offer. She would fuck him to get retribution and that would restore our relationship.

The next time I spoke to Jake we were in the garage at my house. That was our hangout spot. We could smoke cigarettes out there or weed. There was a TV in the corner and a stereo. I brought up the conversation Jake and I had previously. I was nervous as I asked him if he would fuck Lily. I explained that we had discussed it and we wanted this to happen but she wanted it to be with him. Of course he agreed. In those days Lily was a petite little thing with a body of a dancer. She had long brown hair and sultry brown eyes. Her legs were smooth, her ass was firm, and her tits were perfectly perky. Who wouldn’t say yes to fucking her? We planned to make it happen at the house party we were having in a couple of weeks.

Waiting for that weekend to come was a mixture of nervousness and excitement but I was more sexually charged than ever. My girlfriend who had only ever been with me was about fuck another guy. Also she had decided she was going to make me watch as the ultimate punishment.

We would talk about it when we had sex. She would tell me how she was going to let him use her like a whore in front of me. Saying things like that would only make me thrust harder and cum pretty fast. More and more I felt this experience was going to be life changing and it definitely was.

On the night of the party everyone was there. Jake came by to drop off the pills and said Amelia would arrive later. Chris who I talked about in the first blog was there with his new girlfriend. She was a bit more innocent and did not even smoke pot. We had to pretend we were just drinking because then Chris wouldn’t get in a fight with her.

We took our pills and settled in for a fun night anticipating what was to come. Once the pills began kick in the touching and massaging started. Jake offered to “Blow Lily up” He told me to stand behind her and massage her back as he simultaneously massaged her from the front and blew through a Vicks inhaler all over her face and body. She removed her shirt so she could feel it more. His hands began to rub all over as I watched him caress her breast and massage her nipples. She was getting so turned on by this. He could have owned her right there and fucked her in front of everyone if he wanted. She was melting between the two of us. Watching her become so aroused from being touched by two men was exhilarating! Her eyes closed as her body moved in time with our massages. Her nipples fully erect and urging to be stimulated. It was amazing.

After he finished and the ecstasy roll had fully taken hold she sat back against me as I continued to run my fingers lightly up and down her arms. She whispered she was ready.

Amelia had arrived around that time and Jake had explained everything to her. She was looking hot as always and was to my surprise totally down with the plan to let Lily get fucked by Jake. We discussed turning it into a foursome but Lily said that I didn’t get to have sex because it was her turn to get back at me for cheating.

We all snuck off to my bedroom and met there trying not to draw attention to ourselves from the other’s at the party. When I walked in Jake already has his hands all over Lily. He was rubbing her body and massaging her breast. I knew by the look on her face her pussy was extremely wet and she was ready to fuck. She had always been interested in girls and Amelia was absolutely Bi. Jake told them to kiss. Amelia took over the massaging. They rubbed and moved their bodies together as they kissed. Lily was nervous as she explored another girl for the first time.

The room was a large rectangle with a couch that ran along one side under a double set of windows and a twin bed in the far corner. Amelia laid Lily on the bed and began to kiss and lick her way down her body running her hands all over her breast and nipples. I laid at the head of the bed with a front row seat. It was one of the hottest things I’d ever seen. Amelia began to lick and suck at Lily’s pussy. She let out a long exhale. Amelia had clearly done this before. She continued to rub her hands up her thighs and flicked her tongue across her clit. Lily’s breathing picked up tempo as she felt the sensual touch of another girl for the first time. Amelia sat back giving Jake a view of her perfect plump ass and soft white skin as she was kneeling at the foot of my bed. In awe I sat gently stroking my cock. Amelia rubbed Lily’s pussy in quick circular motions. This turned her breathing into soft moans of pleasure.

Finally, Amelia stood up and laid on the bed asking Lily to return the favor. Amelia spread her legs showing her tight little pussy which was just as wet as Lily’s. Lily was extremely nervous about this. She had never gone down on a girl before and was a bit hesitant. After all this was unexpected and not what she was originally here for. She began to lick Amelia. Amelia grabbed the back of Lily’s head pushing her face in. Force feeding her clit to her. Shortly into it however, Lily broke free awkwardly uncomfortable with what she had done.

Lily went to Jake and began to kiss him. Meanwhile Amelia laid down on the bed next to me and took my hand rubbing herself with it. She slid my hand down her body to show me how wet she was. Lily reminded that I could not fuck anyone. I was only allowed to watch!

She was stroking Jake’s cock and kissing him deeply. I was in a bit of a trance watching. I couldn’t tell if it was the ecstasy allowing me to be ok with it all or just that it was so hot to see her this way. Soon she dropped to her knees and was face to face with Jake’s cock. He penis was thick and decent size. She opened her mouth and wrapped her lips around the tip doing circles with her tongue. Lily had always gave amazing at blow jobs and being this was her first time with another man I think she was trying to impress him. I watched my girlfriend’s head slowly bob up and down as she sucked him off. Amelia was rubbing my balls and began to suck my cock but unfortunately one of the side effects of ecstasy is that sometimes the equipment doesn’t work all that well. One of the hottest girls I’d ever seen naked was trying to give me a blow job and sadly I could not get hard. She totally understood since they rolled often and told me not to worry about it.

Amelia continued stroking me as Jake now was gripping Lily’s hair and fucking her sweet innocent little face.

When she was let up for air she looked up at him and said, “Fuck me”.

That was all Jake needed to hear. The time had come. Lily was about to take another man for the first time. He laid her on the floor in missionary. Lily spread her legs without hesitation and intense lust in her eyes as he lowered himself on top of her. She was so wet at this point his penis split her pussy lips with ease.

I could not take my eyes off her. Amelia, the extremely sexy Pamela Anderson look-a-like was rubbing my cock but all my focus was on Lily.

She quickly became lost in the new cock that had entered her. She didn’t seem to care what else was happening. As his pace quickened her lust turned in to pure animalistic behaviour. He lifted her legs up placing one on each shoulder and began to pound her. She grunted every time his balls slap against her ass as his cock went deeper and deeper. She looked at me as she held onto his arms getting fucked harder than she ever has. Her eyes were glazed over from a mixture of drugs and sex. She was becoming a true slut right before my eyes and we were both turned on by it.

As she stared at me she grunted, “Are you watching him fuck me? This is what you get for cheating on me! This is how I want to be fucked!”

The slapping of skin went on and on until finally he pull out and came a huge load all over her stomach.

It was over and I was intensely aroused but still couldn’t even get hard. She cleaned up and came to me on the bed and we held each other lying naked as we continued to rub our bodies together.

This amazing experience was the beginning for us and we wanted more! The whole time it was happening Chris had tried a few times to come in the room but we had said no because we didn’t want everyone knowing what was happening. We all cleaned up and left the room. There was a strong smell of sex in the air and anyone who went in that room had to know someone had been fucked. We were so naive to think everyone in the house didn’t hear the skin smacking and Lily’s grunts and moans. Chris wanted in on it too and Lily wanted more cock.

By this time it was early in the morning but she was still in a lust haze when she told me to have Chris meet us in the bedroom. He accepted and my best friend and I used my new-found whore for hours like a sex doll. He would become the third in many adventures going forward.

Please comment or message us if you have any questions or even suggestions about topics you may want to hear about. We may jump ahead a bit and come back to our experiences with Chris another time. We hope you enjoy our blog. All stories are true. The only changes made have been the names of the people in them. We would love and appreciate any feedback. Also please share and help us reach a larger audience. Thank you so much for reading!

July 31, 2018
Back in the Day

Welcome to our blog about the Swinging Lifestyle.

Through this blog we share our stories of excitement, adventures, exploration, and any mishaps we encounter along the way. We intend to unveil the mystery behind the Lifestyle and provide answers to questions people may have at least from our perspective. Whether new and curious, or a longtime lifestyle veteran hopefully you will come away with a sense of acceptance with the realization that there are many of us out there and it is nothing to be ashamed of.

We are Lily and Mike; a married couple in our late thirties who have been together over twenty years. Our relationship is rock solid and our love for each other is strong and unconditional.

We met as teenagers in the summer of 96′. At that time in our lives our hormones were insane! Once we started having sex we couldn’t get enough. We would have sex anywhere, everywhere, and all the time! One time we had sex in the middle of a corn field while we were hanging out with friends. We simply disappeared, took off our pants and went at it like we were in heat! And we were!

Early in our relationship I made a mistake that could have put a stop to everything before it began. I’ve known from a very young age that I was going to be hypersexual. I could NOT wait to grow up and have sex. Unfortunately when I met Lily, being a teenager, I was at the pinnacle of my sexual exploration! My hormones were off the charts! She had a friend who was a sexy voluptuous redhead. We all hung out together and she was dating a friend of mine. Let’s call her Jess.

We were at Jess’s house one weekend and a game of truth or dare broke out as could be expected of teenagers. Quite vanilla to begin with but quickly turned naughty. It was myself, Lily, Jess and her boyfriend, Chris. Chris and I had been friends a long time. Attempting to orchestrate the fun one of us “boys” dared Lily and Jess to kiss. They were shy and giggly. It was so cute. I can’t recall at this point but I think it was pretty quick but Chris and I, being the horny boys we were, just stared and gawked in amazement. Then someone brought up the idea of swapping partners to make out. We went in separate rooms though since none of us wanted to see the other since we were worried about any jealousy issues. She took me into a bedroom and I sat on the edge of the bed. Jess became giggly again and we both laughed nervously as we looked at each other. At that time in my life my nerves always got the better of me and I had trouble initiating anything. We agreed to just do it! She came up to me and leaned in. Once her lips touched mine all the nerves disappeared. We started making out exploring each other’s tongues and feeling that sexual tension begin to grow. We broke away finally but were left hot and bothered. Shortly after our little game it was time to leave.

Going forward Chris and Jess decided to take a break from each other. They remained friends however. We got together often for hangouts and parties since all of our friends were intertwined.

We were planning to get together one night but Lily had to work in the afternoon so we had some time we had to kill until she got out. Jess and I decided to go to a movie. We never really discussed the kiss we had during the truth or dare game but there was definitely sexual tension between the two of us ever since. Her and I sat in the theater together. I have absolutely no idea what movie we watched. As we sat there suddenly we began to touch each other lightly. I started rubbing her thighs and she would rub mine. We started to kiss and grab at each other. My cock was so hard. She pulled it out and began to stroke it. We were way in the back of the theater so no one knew plus it was fairly empty being an earlier show. It was so hot and I knew I just had to fuck her. When we left the theater we instantly felt remorse. Lily was my girlfriend and Jess’s best friend. We swore we would tell no one and never do this again.

As days passed however and we would talk about what happened to each other we knew not doing it again was going to be difficult. I dropped by her house saying we were just going to hang out and watch some tv. Instantly we began to touch and grope each other. My tongue down her throat and she grabbed my cock through my pants. I can’t recall if she gave me a blowjob but I think so. Remember this was like 20 years ago. She had very large breast for a 18-year-old girl. They were amazing and me being very much a boob guy had to suck on them. I buried my face between them tasting and licking. I Laid her back on the couch, pulled her pants off, and spread her legs revealing her soft virgin pussy. She had faint reddish hair just above. Yes, she was a true redhead! I went down on her. I had no idea what I was doing but always loved to taste new pussy. I licked and sucked. She became so wet and horny. I came up spread her legs wide and slid my cock right into her pussy. It was so tight. I began to thrust in and out slowly. I didn’t have much staying power back then and new pussy always made me cum very quickly. I was trying to keep from having this happen. With her legs wrapped around me her body moved with me. There was no way I was going to hold out. I pulled out and came on her stomach.

We got cleaned up but could not keep our hands off each other. I needed to be inside her tight pussy again. We drove to a secluded parking lot behind a business complex. This was the go to spot to “park and fuck” back in the mid 90s for us teens. I had a moon roof in my car which I removed. Once we parked we went at it again. She straddled me and bounced up and down with her breast right at face level. It was so hot. She had plenty of head room with the moonroof removed. I asked if I could call her a little slut but she denied saying she didn’t like that. Lily loved being called a slut and other naughty names when I fucked her. Still does! After we finished we swore that would be the last time. It definitely was the last time!

A few days later Jess called me. She was guilt stricken. She had betrayed her best friend. She told me she had to confess to her. I also think she was hoping to break us up so she could be with me. Which to me was not even a thought I even had though I may have hinted at it. I’m not proud to say it but back then I’d say all kinds of things to get pussy. I pleaded with her to keep our secret but it was useless. They went to the same school and saw each other every day. She approached her in the hallway and came clean.

The fallout nearly destroyed our marriage before the idea ever entered our minds. Lily was heartbroken. She was angry and rightly so. I had broken our trust. One of the most difficult things to repair is trust. She may have forgiven but has never forgotten. No matter how many years go by. Jealousy issues still come up even today that are rooted in the awful judgment I had as a teenager. However this incident would prove to be the catalyst to our journey into the Lifestyle.

Please let us know if you have questions or comments! Next time we will describe our first experience with a couple which stems from an agreement we made to give retributions to hopefully repair our trust.

July 30, 2018